http://www.bigbookofyoublog.com/emotional-healing/how-to-use-your-reactions/ Sat, 06 Nov 2010 20:23:45 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 http://www.bigbookofyoublog.com/emotional-healing/how-to-use-your-reactions/comment-page-1/#comment-130 Maria Alejandra S. Mon, 16 Feb 2009 13:20:25 +0000 http://bboy.chriswhong.com/?p=34#comment-130 I read EVERYTHING you send me so GENEROUSLY and just for the "gusto" of giving. And you convey your knowledge in such a simple way, it soothes my soul like soft lotion on dry hands. I just read on and on. THANK you for sharing so generously all that you have to give. You're simply a genius. And like that beautiful little movie you shared in your blog, I have to say "YOU are GREAT!" I read EVERYTHING you send me so GENEROUSLY and just for the “gusto” of giving. And you convey your knowledge in such a simple way, it soothes my soul like soft lotion on dry hands. I just read on and on. THANK you for sharing so generously all that you have to give. You’re simply a genius.
And like that beautiful little movie you shared in your blog, I have to say “YOU are GREAT!”

]]> http://www.bigbookofyoublog.com/emotional-healing/how-to-use-your-reactions/comment-page-1/#comment-129 bonni Wed, 14 Jan 2009 05:15:27 +0000 http://bboy.chriswhong.com/?p=34#comment-129 I'm finding more and more that when other people react strangely, cruelly, spitefully, or otherwise unkindly to me, it's more a reflection of them than of me. They project their issues onto me and then react as if it was all true. In this case, either the emailer has persistent fear of being ripped off or cheated or something (therefore, they assume everyone is cheating them) or they are the type of person who cheats, rips off, etc., and rather than deal with their own issues, they project them elsewhere and then berate the person they hung them on. I do think that we, in some way, must have some "chink in our armour" that allows them to think we should be or can be psychically attacked, but in most cases I've seen (and I've been looking for this stuff, having recently come to undestand it), these are just purely people projecting. We can grow and learn from these attacks, of course. (How do you think I worked it out this far? ;-)) I’m finding more and more that when other people react strangely, cruelly, spitefully, or otherwise unkindly to me, it’s more a reflection of them than of me. They project their issues onto me and then react as if it was all true.
In this case, either the emailer has persistent fear of being ripped off or cheated or something (therefore, they assume everyone is cheating them) or they are the type of person who cheats, rips off, etc., and rather than deal with their own issues, they project them elsewhere and then berate the person they hung them on.
I do think that we, in some way, must have some “chink in our armour” that allows them to think we should be or can be psychically attacked, but in most cases I’ve seen (and I’ve been looking for this stuff, having recently come to undestand it), these are just purely people projecting.
We can grow and learn from these attacks, of course. (How do you think I worked it out this far? )

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